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Our Adoption 5k






This fundraiser has been the hardest, most rewarding, stressful, most fun event I have ever put together. Hahaha, so many emotions in one small sentence. But it's true! If you're thinking of putting together a 5k (run/walk) fundraiser, prepare yourself! It isn't a walk in the park, but if you do it the right way it is pretty simple! 

I've broken it down into 6 sections on how to organize a 5k and then at the end you'll find some questions I've gotten.  Please remember, this was my first time ever doing something like this. I did hours and hours of research before hand and felt like I knew what was best for our situation. So, if anything rubs you the wrong way, totally fine, you can do it a different way and how you see fit for yourself. This is just what worked for us :-)



1. Team

You NEED a good team behind you. Delegating is one of my worst traits (I think most people have a hard time delegating) But let me tell you, this is what made me so calm the months, weeks and days leading up to the 5k. I had my right hand "woman",  my dear friend Kelsie, right beside me the whole time. She was able to tell me what didn't look right or things that I forgot to add. Find yourself a "Kelsie". They will save your butt! I also had a few other people to contact the food trucks, balloon arch, certain booths, etc. If you don't have yourself a team then you will drown! I assigned each person something specific so that way it was organized and I knew something was getting done. we held meetings monthly to see where everyone was at with their tasks and we would then reevaluate. If someone finished their task early then I was able to rely on them for a quick run to the grocery store to grab ice or to make sure we had enough waters to hand out, etc. Meet with your team often! We met about once a month and then text periodically. You want to make sure you are all on the same page and if anyone is struggling with their task you are able to jump in and help.   

2. Permit/Insurance

If you are planning on doing a 5k at a park, pavilion, pretty much anywhere but your house. You will need a permit. This was the first thing we made sure we had. You can't advertise about your event until you have a spot secured. Look up your cities permit requirements and get a hold of them ASAP! We actually had a few locations picked out just in case the one we wanted wouldn't work out or they were booked for the date we wanted to do the 5k on.  Make sure you are following their rules on what you can and can not have. For instance, I wanted a jump house at our 5k, but our city wouldn't allow it. So that went out the door quickly (saved us money too) Have all your paperwork and fees ready to be turned in on time. You don't want to have to switch locations last minute all because of one little thing you forgot to turn in. And yes, permits do cost money. Don't forget your insurance! Our city required insurance on our event and even if they didn't we still would have gotten it (my husband's and insurance agent so we understand how HUGE insurance is) We also printed out liability forms for the participants to sign. We wanted to make sure our backs were covered, we weren't about to loose everything we worked hard for. Have a good route that can easily be approved by the city and ran by the participants.




3. Advertise/Sponsors

I think this is something we could have done a little better, even though I felt like we flooded your feeds about our fundraiser ;-) Social media is your best friend during this. You do not have to have a huge following to advertise. Just post and ask for others to repost and the word will get out. But remember, there are still a lot of people who don't use social media. You'll need to go to restaurants, running stores, shops, anywhere you can think of. We actually had the college cheer team hand them out at a city parade. Just get your name out there! You can pay for advertisements online also. You can not rely on word of mouth between family and friends. This is hard for someone who is more reserved and hates advertising, but it's the only way you'll get people to your event which means you'll make more money at your fundraiser! Don't forget sponsors! You'll need a few sponsors to help get the ball rolling. Make sure you set very detailed goals, i.e. sponsorship costs, benefits of being a sponsor, logos, etc. Sponsorships are what's going to help bring in a big chunk of donations. But you also need to make sure it's benefiting them too.




4. Shop Around

You will need some type of merchandise that will set you apart from other fundraisers, ex: shirts, medals, bracelets, etc. We chose to have shirts made for each participant. We also (remember this is a personal preference) felt that if someone was paying to participate in our 5k, they better get something out of it (a shirt) We contacted a few companies to see who had the lowest prices and was willing to help us out since it was a fundraiser. I was very satisfied with the company we chose! We also decided to have food trucks at our event. We wanted everyone there to have fun and make it a family night. We contacted quite a bit of food trucks and some had certain requirements, while others were more then happy to be there. **Make sure you look up your city permits on having food given out at your event** If you are having food trucks at your 5k, ask if they have their own city permit, if they will donate a certain % of their profits that night.

5. Make It Fun!

We didn't want people to feel like they were just handing us over money and having a boring experience. So we had games set up that didn't really cost us money, a silent auction going (another way to raise money) and the college cheerleaders and even our NBA mascot stopped by! Look for the connections you have and go from there. And then of course we had the food trucks.



6. Misc Items.

I had lists upon lists of the random things we needed to make sure we had. Balloons, signs, pens, paper, candy, tape, tables, chairs, blow horn. I also wanted the running participants to have water and some snack afterwards so we got a hold of our local grocery store to see if they could donate some to the run. We ended up getting water, granola bars and peanut butter packets (from a different company) donated. Call around and see which local stores will donate to a fundraiser. It may take a few phone calls but keep trying. 



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A few Q&A's that I know people were curious about.

Q: Was it hard to put together?
A: Not really. There are a lot of t's to cross and i's to dot but as long as you follow everything by the book (permits/city rules) then it's not that hard. And like I said, delegating is a big help. I had about 5 tasks out of 15.

Q: Was it worth it?
YES! Even though we didn't make the amount we were hoping, it was so awesome to see everyone have so much fun. Then to see all the support we had, made this adoption seem like we could do it. Because we all know how hard adoption is. But a little advice, don't go into thinking you'll raise tens of thousands of dollars. But it's better to have worked hard for your money then it just given as a handout. Work hard and the more success you'll see!

5k #HelloBabyPalmer


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We are so excited to announce the first annual #HelloBabyPalmer 5k run/walk!!!! We are hoping (hence the annual part) to do this every year to help another adopting family. So, let's make this year successful by sharing the news with EVERYONE!! 

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Registration is now open to everyone. Yep, we are allowing out of state runners/walkers to register and run in their hometown. We will be sending you a #HelloBabyPalmer shirt to say thank you. We are hoping you'll get a few of your friends to run beside you to help with this amazing cause! 

We are so lucky to have some incredible food trucks, games, and Weber State Cheerleaders and Mascot joining us that day. It seriously is going to be so much fun! So bring your mom, grandpa, dogs, ANYONE! 

Ways to Fundraise for Adoption



Did you know that adoption can cost anywhere between $25,000-$50,000 ! This is such a HUGE topic when couples decide to star the adoption process. "Where are we going to come up with that kind of money?" "Are we even going to be able to afford a baby after we pay all the fees?"

We wish it could be a fraction of that costs but it's not, so we knew we needed to bring in the troops to help bring our baby home. Here are some ideas for fundraising that we have either tried, heard of other adoptive families trying, or are excited to be doing in the near future.




1. Instagram Auction
This was our first fundraiser. My incredible sister helped coordinate it and I am so thankful. Definitely get one or two friends/family to help with this one. We had tons of amazing companies and even friends donate their time or product to our auction. I figured if people were going to help us financially, they deserved something in return. And an auction was just that. Make sure you stay organized with what products are being auctioned off, the starting bid and then who was the highest bidder. Then if the highest bidder has paid or not. We just used a google docs that was shared between my sister and I and it was so helpful! Nothing got lost, we didn't feel overwhelmed and we could thank each person/company who donated easily. We made a good donation off of this and we definitely will be holding another one for our next adoption.

2. Yard Sale
We personally haven't done this one but have heard of other adoptive couples doing them. People can donate their stuff also and it's a win win for them. They are helping a family get closer to their baby and they are getting rid of their junk haha. It's great to put up signs saying what the cause of the yard sale. People love to help other people in a great cause. So make sure they now that they are helping build your family. Who knows, they might end up purchasing more stuff!

3. Sport Activity
We are very close to the college cheerleading team out here. (Both Riley and I were on the team for a bit) They wanted to help in some way so they organized an "open gym" where anyone could come and stunt and tumble and all the admission fees would go towards our adoption. It was incredible! Definitely got in contact with a team you've been working with or even a extra curricular activity. People are getting some fun out of it and also helping build a family!

4. Community Run
This was on our list and we actually had a whole committee organized for a 5k. But since we were matched so quickly, we couldn't find the time to get it going (also why we did the "open gym") We had a list of food trucks that would donate a certain percentage to our adoption. We were going to have a silent auction going on also, with items that companies and small shops had donated. And then there was the 5k, the main event. We had a $5 fee to enter into the 5k and then a deal for larger families. We are so excited to do this for our next fundraiser because it involves the whole family and community. Plus, Riley and I are both very active so it fits our family perfectly. This is a fundraiser where you could make really good donations at. Just stay organized with how much money is going out and who is donating what. Hence our committee that we had. Each person was assigned a different task. It was so organized and relieved so much stress.

5. Donation Page
I put this as our last one because it's something that is going on in the background of things. Riley and I strongly agree that you should work for what you want. A gofundme page or youcaring page is a great place for people to go to if they can't make any of your local fundraising events. But do not rely on this to raise your adoption funds. Work to get your baby here! Work hard, so it's all worth it and you can say you gave it all your blood, sweat and tears. We did have a youcaring account but had 3 other fundraising events going on at the same time. Like I said, it's a great way for Grandma and Grandpa to donate when they can't be here physically.

**Helpful Tips**

- Stay Organized! (spreadsheets, planners, etc)

- Have a separate adoption bank account set up. This will help with not mixing up personal finances and adoption finances

- PRAY! Pray that you wont become overwhelmed with the financial burden. Pray that you will know who to be in contact with to help you with each part. Pray that you will be humble to those asking to help you. Pray for gratitude that you were given this opportunity to welcome a child into your home. 

Where To Start With Adoption









Planner | Organizer (similar)

My Top (similar) | Joggers | Lemmon's Sweatsuit | Lemmon's slippers 


One of the main questions we get with adoption is where to start. Good question! We had the same one at one point. Now, this is really up to you on where you think is best to start, but this is what worked for us and made us feel comfortable going into the adoption process.

1. Agency/Private: Find an agency or facts if you are going to go private. This is HUGE! There are so many great agencies out there but they need to be a right fit for you. We looked into about 4 different agencies and even sat down and talked to a few people about their experiences. That's what sealed the deal for us. We wanted an agency with good reviews and that was sucking our money. We wanted one that was fast and we could work very closely with. 

2. Home Study: The reason this one is second is because some agencies wont accept a home study unless it's from one of their social workers. Home Studies aren't cheap, so you don't want to be forking out all this money then choose an agency who doesn't recognize your home study. As soon as we picked our agency we called them up and asked them to send a social worker over for our home study. We knew it would be approved and that, again, we were working closely with the agency.

3. Paperwork: There are mountains and mountains of paperwork. I am not joking (even though I wish I was) So staying organized is a must! Our agency had a check list of everything we needed to be approved to adopt. It was so nice! If you're agency doesn't have one, then make one of your own, it will help a lot! I grabbed one of these accordion organizers to store all our documents in and then got a brand new planner to put all our important dates and reminders in. The Brilliant Life Planner is seriously perfect for keeping your adoption organized. It has a page for all your goals (ex: finish all paperwork by this date, have homestudy done by this date) and a section for reminders (ex: call agency about cost break down, go get finger prints done, grab a fire extinguisher) You need to be organized once you start the paperwork or you will feel like you are in over your head. I always made 2-3 extra copies of things and put them in our accordion organizer. I've actually had to grab some of those extra copies recently for adoption related things. Start your paperwork A.S.A.P. and be organized!

4. Fundraising: This should actually be in the works as you're going throughout everything, but it should be going full throttle once your homestudy is approved. Then you are able to focus on raising funds and giving it your all (because it takes a lot of effort!) I'll be doing a separate post on different ways to fundraise but make sure you know how to track fundraising (future taxes, not to be taxed on it now, etc.) Adoption isn't cheap and people absolutely love bringing families together. So let them help!

I hope these few steps helped you feel not so overwhelmed on the beginning stages of adoption. Just take a deep breath and start at one item on your checklist and then go down from there. Taking on everything at the beginning will give you an ulcer! Trust me! It took me about a week to get through all our paperwork, I knew how much I could handle and I wanted our answers to be honest and thorough. Also, trust your gut. Only you know which agency will be best for you and how much your heart can handle.   

THANK YOU!



Riley and I are honestly speechless at everyone who has reached out to us or who has shared our story on their own social media sites and who have already donated to our adoption goal! I was telling Riley that I never understood when people said they couldn't believe the response they had received from sharing something so near to their heart, until now. I mean, I knew we had people who loved and cared for us, but to see how many just blew us away! I have shed so many tears of hope, gratitude and just pure happiness in the last 24 hours. Your love and support mean the world to us! 



We are so excited that we were able to raise enough of our own for our Home Study in a few weeks. We are still continuing to save and start all of our fundraising events! On the side bar of our blog we have our YouCaring Fundraiser . We would appreciate any support through that (it will continue staying up till we have hit our goal.) If you don't want to donate through YouCaring and donate directly to us, you can email me at kashia.bustillos@gmail.com Any donations will be logged into our YouCaring Fundraiser so you can be excited with us in reaching our goal! 
**Thank you SO much to everyone who has already donated through YouCaring**

My Sister (who is pregnant and busy with an 18 month old) has so graciously volunteered to put an instagram auction together. We would love any donations of any kind. Etsy shops, personal services (lessons, haircuts, lawn mowing) We are accepting personal service in California and Utah. The Instagram auction will go live July 2nd. If you or anyone you know would like to donate please email me at kashia.bustillos@gmail.com Anyone and everyone are able to bid on the items. We've already had a few donations and let me tell you, they are GOOD!

We have a few more fundraisers that are in the works that we will be announcing very soon. I am so excited and grateful for the ladies who have approached us with them! 

We know things maybe tight with you and/or your families. Your love and support is all we need! We do ask that you pray for us and our birth mother. Prayer is just as important as all this money being donated and we can't do without it.